Most of the time, most of us amateur photographers have preconceived notions about what makes a “Kodak moment”. Perhaps not surprisingly, many of us share a common aesthetic about these photo-worthy events, which is why there are so many pictures of swollen-faced mommy dressed in a hospital johnnie holding wrinkly new baby while unshaven daddy (or equally exhausted looking NB mommy) leans in to complete the shot. These are the images of toddler on Santa’s lap, or baby’s first Passover, or naked baby in the bathtub, or whatever it is. While these moments may be worth documenting, they don’t necessarily make the best photographs. They might, but they might not. A great moment doesn’t mean a great image.
Which is why you have to be zen about it. You have to be the rock and let the river run over you. (Or whatever. Those of you who know me know that I am about the least zen person ever.) The point is, in addition to going out and looking for that Kodak moment, you need to let the moments come to you. You need to be open to the possibility of a great image in places and times you never expected. This is key for amateur photographers. (And perhaps the best reason to have a camera that you are willing to carry with you, and that you feel comfortable operating.)
Professional photographers have an eye for the shot, and the equipment to create the lighting and effects they want. We amateurs might not always be so lucky, on either front. So we have to constantly be open to good shots, especially in places we might not expect them. In addition to holidays, “firsts”, and pictures with family, here are some other times when you might want to make sure to have the camera available:
- First and foremost, when the light is good. Let’s keep in mind that when it comes to light, you really are looking for quality, not quantity. Bright sunlight can be almost as bad as darkness – even if you can get your baby to look up at you, he will most likely be squinting, and he will have shadows under his eyes. The image will end up being way too contrasty (that’s the technical term. Ahem.), and it won’t look good. You’re looking for soft, natural light – early in the morning, later in the afternoon, or even on a cloudier day. Anything that is less harsh.
- When baby is comfortable and happy, doing something she is fully engaged in. The best shots are the ones that really give us a sense of the baby’s emerging personality, and you’re going to get those pictures when the baby is doing something he enjoys.
- Try different angles. We often shoot babies from right in front of them, or standing over them. Try standing to the side, or getting on the floor with your baby. I’ve taken some great shots while squatting next to the crib and shooting through the bars.
- When baby is eating. Now, this rule is NOT true for adults as no one enjoys a picture of themselves with a mouth full of food. (And even if they do, you probably don’t want to take that picture.) But when babies eat, it’s hilarious. They get covered in it, and that often provides for an interesting and funny picture.
- Which leads me to #4 – any time your baby is doing something that reminds us that she is a baby (or a toddler) and not a big kid or an adult. I’m talking about behaviors that your kiddo does naturally, not contrived situations that we may put our babies in (although those can be hilarious too, especially if they involve blue wigs). Eating (or attempting to do so) is a great example. Rolling around in the play gym, banging away at Tupperware on the kitchen floor (if you can get enough light), squatting to inspect that leaf we didn’t even notice, crawling across the beach – any of those moments when children remind us that there is much in the world we are missing, and that there is a different perspective to be taken – these are the moments when you want to have your camera out, and take LOTS OF PICTURES. Any time you would take one, take twenty instead. Seriously. Twenty.
- Finally, be open to different kinds of images, not just of smiling babies (although I must confess to being partial to the smiling baby shot myself). The beauty of photography, in my opinion, is in its realism – its ability to take us into another moment, a space outside of ourselves, and give us a glimpse into a different experience. A baby’s experience is not all smiles, and an image of a sad, angry, pensive, or tired baby can be just as interesting and memorable (and probably more so) than another smiling baby shot. Don’t get totally wrapped up in making sure the baby is looking at you, or looking at the camera, or smiling just the right way. Start snapping away, and keep snapping, and then when you are looking through your shots, take time to consider all the images, including the ones you might not normally consider.
Here’s an example. This is a picture I shot one morning when F was still in her PJ’s, playing in the Pack N Play. There was nothing particularly special about the moment, except the light coming through the window was just lovely, and I grabbed the camera. Many of you have seen this shot before on the blog, but it’s one of my favorites, as it really captures the serious, thoughtful look she often gets – my mom noticed it during her first days of life.
There you have it – this amateur’s guide to photographing babes in four parts. My maven husband has offered to write a guest post on choosing a camera, but it might be a few days before that happens. In the meanwhile, what questions do you have? Was this helpful? I’d love to hear from you, and if you have thoughts or tips for photographing babies, please share them. Whatever else you do, get out that camera, charge the battery, and start shooting!
















